You might be hiding parts of yourself that you think others would judge or reject, but then feel lonely because no one knows the real you. You might work extra hard to be faultless, but you're still plagued by an inner critic who believes that better is never good enough. You might go out of your way to please others, maybe edging into co-dependence (taking care of them in the hope they will take care of you). But then you feel resentful and depleted when others just enjoy the benefit of your care without reciprocating or showing appreciation.We give away the care we need and strive for perfection in the hope that we will be good enough to be loved. It never works. The bar just gets set higher.Being good enough doesn't make us lovable. It's being loved for no reason that finally makes us feel good enough. You are the best person to give yourself that healing love. I can show you how.